Gay men can lead humanity with a new model of forgiveness through their own self-exploration of gay shame and internalized homophobia, evolving as men who understand and embrace the dichotomy of masculine and feminine energies.įor many gay men we had to learn how to forgive ourselves when we first came out of the closet. Forgiveness and Self-Acceptance Start with Understanding Our Gay Shame.įorgiveness allows you to live in the now, to have the self-worth to be able to let go of your past and all the transgressions you may have suffered - but not to condone or forget the actions of others.